And on a bright note: today’s high is 78 degrees here in Central Texas! I didn’t know weather could go below the 90s... I have no recent first-hand memory of what that’s like here.

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. A new episode of A Drink With a Friend! When you can’t do the ideal, but you can still do something, what’s the good-enough version? That’s called a partial solution. Sounds simple, but it’s hard to enact. We have an ideal in our head, and when we can’t have that, we tend to throw everything out the window and do nothing. But we live in a broken world and can almost never fully achieve that perfect ideal this side of heaven. So what should we do? Embrace the done > perfect (and yes, this episode embodies this very idea, which I explain therein). (And a friendly remind to subscribe to the show, so you won’t miss an episode.)

2. As an avid reader, a semi-avid writer with another book on the way, and someone fascinated by (if not a little weary of) all the AI talk these days, I really appreciated ’s recent nuanced piece on why—and how—books will should never die: “A good book creates an immersive, extended encounter with a consciousness other than our own. ...The quality of the encounter depends not only on who the author is but on what they do with the content. ...The book’s apparent inefficiency creates part of the experience, part of the encounter. It doesn’t detract from its value; it’s a key aspect of the unique value proposition.”

3. October is truly an excellent month of feast days. Yesterday’s was St. Thérèse of Lisieux, today’s is the Holy Guardian Angels, the 4th is St. Francis of Assisi, the 7th is Our Lady of the Rosary, the 15th is St. Teresa of Avila, the 17th is St. Ignatius of Antioch, the 18th is St. Luke the Evangelist, and the 22nd is St. John Paul II. Quite the lineup in one month!

4. ’s latest piece on social capital (vs capital capital) has given me a lot to think about, mostly because it’s an idea I’m very familiar with, yet it’s framed in a way I hadn’t yet thought of. It reminds me of our family’s decision to live where we live: in a fairly small old house, yet in an outrageously walkable neighborhood that’s incredibly easy to host other friends and families (and thereby share its Shire-ness) because there’s so much around us mere feet away: coffee shops, great restaurants, a beloved natural watering hole, community parades and events on the Square… These come at a cost of us living in a small-ish, one-bathroom house. Yet our community-driven location is invaluable. In her words: “So, what do you do if you aspire to a social capital way of life but you lack the requisite staffing? Well, I think obviously you’ve got to gather your people.”

5. And finally, the history of mustard. You’re welcome.

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My Cozy Autumn playlist

Quotable 💬

“I wish that every day was Saturday and every month was October.”

- Charmaine J. Forde

What’s the best day of the week? 📆

I want to have a more creative answer (looking at you, Tuesday and Thursday answer-givers!), but alas, I’m Team Saturday all the way. I also feel like I should say Sunday—which is a close second for me—but it’s eclipsed by Saturday only because of those inevitable Sunday evening blues (though I admittedly enjoy my job a great deal).

But the best feeling of the week? Those show up on Friday nights. I love that start to the weekend, when you’ve got dinner simmering and a good 48 hours ahead of you… Bliss.

(Also, poor Wednesday.)

• Monday: 5.7%

• Tuesday: 2.6%

• Wednesday: 1.4%

• Thursday: 9.2%

• Friday: 24.2%

• Saturday: 29.2%

• Sunday: 27.7%

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Summer 2027: The Tuscan Region of Italy 🍝

An excursion from next summer’s pilgrimage itinerary I’m looking forward to: the Abbey of Sant’ Antimo (one of my favorite places in all of Tuscany…)

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

What could you start doing this weekend that your end-of-the-year self would be glad you did?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - …Why is this so mesmerizing?

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. FINALLY: A new episode of A Drink With a Friend! I’m dusting off the podcast for another fall season of delightful conversations about both books and places that have shaped us. For this inaugural one, it’s just me talking to you—and I’m trying something new with the Substack live video feature. (Tech-wise, it turns out it’s easy-peasy, but their video quality is super not great. Better video quality to come, I promise.) However, I will never quit audio, as the good Lord intended podcasts to be, so also find the new episode wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. (Subscribe to the show, too!)

2. …Yes, I’m still thinking about the passing of Wendell Berry, thank you kindly. I loved every word of this tribute from , a former student of his from the University of Kentucky—just imagine having him as a professor. I would lead with that factoid at every networking event I’d be forced to attend. What a man: “At that point in the semester, I cared less about getting a good grade and more about simply being a better human being. He wasn’t really teaching us composition as much as he was teaching us how to pay attention, think independently, live honestly, and take responsibility for our words and our lives.”

3. I’m thrilled to report that for the first time in my life, I have a set of wall-to-wall bookshelves in a dedicated writing library that I’m psyched to show you soon (though you can see a glimpse of them in the pixel-y video of the new Drink episode, above). …And yes, it required marrying off my daughter in order to free up space to do so. They’re comprised of beautiful bookshelves Kyle built for me about 12 years ago, but are now sitting together on one wall, attached, and painted a lovely green. Once the ceiling is done being planked, they’ll be capped with crown moulding, and they’ll be a sight to see. Now I just need my Belle ladder-on-wheels. Pics to come!

4. Because we are not machines, we are not meant to place efficiency upon the altar where we worship the culture’s almighty god of Getting Stuff Done So That You Feel Like Your Life Has Meaning. I appreciated ’s thoughts about not only the slowness of reading, but why what we pay attention to matters, and why we must dedicate precious time to paying attention to it: “It pays to ask who or what deserves the precious gift of your attention. ...Philosophy, art, literature, even mathematics at its noblest: these things reward our investment in them because they put us in touch with other souls, and with beauty. They’re worth doing even when you don’t have to do anything.”

5. And finally, a linguist answers word origin questions (I love nerdy stuff like word etymology—watch if you wonder why Americans say ‘fall’ while the rest of the world exclusively uses ‘autumn’).

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The Black Wolf, by Louise Penny (I’m finally, slowly, catching up to this beloved series)

Quotable 💬

“Our culture has filled our heads but emptied our hearts, stuffed our wallets but starved our wonder. It has fed our thirst for facts but not for meaning or mystery.”

- Peter Kreeft

What’s your most favorite area in your life to clean and organize? 🧺

Flipping the script on last week’s poll question… I think I’d have to answer the kitchen, mostly because there’s such an instant gratification there. Countertops sticky? Wipe ‘em down—done. Put the food left out in containers and toss ‘em in the fridge—done. Coffee area all disheveled (🙋‍♀️)? Take ten minutes while it brews in the morning, and you’ve got yourself a tidied-up daily space. We’re in our kitchens multiple times a day, and I, for one, always feel better once it’s cleaned and tidied. Seems like nearly half of you agree with me.

• Closet/Garage: 6.2%

• Bathroom: 5.6%

• Car: 7.4%

• Kitchen: 49%

• Bedroom: 31.8%

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Summer 2027: Italy! 🍝🍷

Join us in Italy for next summer’s pilgrimage… I’d love to have you come along!

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

What did you want to be when you grew up when you were ten years old? How close were you to ultimately hitting that target?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - I think of this every first day of autumn (no matter the temps).

This weekend I’m also (hopefully) finalizing my new office-library! …I thought I’d be done two weeks ago, but it’s been so humid around here that the new paint on my shelves has taken ages to cure, and thus my books have remained in piles on the floor. It hasn’t really been a problem until this week, when I could not for the life of me find my copy of Beowulf (for my class). I stacked them relatively alphabetically, but still... I have a lot of books, and when they’re not facing outward by spine, it’s a smidge hard to tell what’s what. I finally found it—of course at the bottom of a stack—and was ultimately a minor issue. But it’s made me all the more fired up about my new wall-to-wall bookshelf situation, and I hope to share it with you soon.

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. I plan to dust off A Drink With a Friend for the fall season soon! In the meantime, listen in on some of last season’s conversations (of which this next season’s will be quite similar, but with a little additional thought): fighting dementors & 19th-century parables, a girl with power & a powerful woman, and three desires & a 14th-century headstrong Norwegian.

2. Our local coffee shop still has its summer menu out for a few more days because they don’t switch over to the new seasonal menu until the actual, calendar-says-so season change. This means that, as much as people are asking them for a pumpkin-spice-whatever, they’re sticking with their (delightful) summer menu through September 21. I love their fall menu so I’m stoked to get one of my favorites next week, but in the meantime—mad respect for sticking to their guns.

3. I really appreciate these thoughts on learning to hear ourselves again from (on behalf of ): “Our enemy loses ground when we stop rejecting the silent wandering mind and embrace it as the very substance of raw prayer. The distractions we interpret as an excuse to call ourselves undisciplined are often exactly what God wants to surface.”

4. Good stuff here from Word on Fire on the difference between confession and psychotherapy, and why so many in the modern world conflate the two, treating the confessional like a free mini-therapy session without the posture of true repentance and a desire not to sin again: “Psychotherapy may help us understand why we fell and offer us the natural comfort of connecting with another human being. However, confession assures us that, by God’s grace, we need not remain on the ground. In an age devoted to explaining ourselves, that may be the most subversive idea of all.”

5. And finally, why you must start a dynasty (I love that there’s a legit Habsburg active on the internet à la ).

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Caamp Radio

Quotable 💬

“You’ve got to jump off cliffs all the time and build your wings on the way down.”

- Annie Dillard

What’s your least favorite area in your life to clean and organize? 🧺

I mean, I don’t love doing any of these, though I do love having a clean and organized space... I suppose if I were forced to pick today, I’m going with closet/garage, because in our case that’s our added-on backyard shed (our old cottage came garageless and nearly closetless). It’s our catch-all place for things to get to eventually, and right now, it’s a bit of a scary place. Plus, I’m not going near that in this late-summer heat. I look forward to the day when it is finally organized—but today is not that day.

• Closet/Garage: 39.3%

• Bathroom: 32.5%

• Car: 12.2%

• Kitchen: 9.9%

• Bedroom: 6.1%

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Summer 2027: Italy! 🍝🍷

Join us in Italy for next summer’s pilgrimage… I’d love to have you come along!

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

How far back do you know about your family tree? What’s the legacy (good or less-than-good) that’s left to you to steward or change?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - What has four letters.

As we stood in line, the otherworldly scene in downtown New York unfolded on a TV screen (the old cathode ray tube-style bolted from the ceiling), and we assumed it was some sort of action film. I remarked to Kyle, “Why are they showing a movie in passport control? That’s kinda weird.” An American behind us interjected and said, “You haven’t heard yet, have you... They bombed the twin towers in New York. It’s all over the news.”

“Who’s ‘they’?” one of us said.

“We don’t know yet,” the stranger said.

The two of us got through passport control, then beelined it to a pay phone, where we called our hostel to let them know of our arrival (in this era, they’d sometimes bring around complimentary airport transportation once you gave them a phone call).

“We’ll be right there,” the Turkish gentleman on the phone said, “And we are also so sorry about the news. Come and join us; we are all watching everything on the TV in the lobby. There are plenty of other Americans here, too.” I found this a bit strange. I didn’t yet realize just how monumental the day was.

We quickly checked in, then joined the crowd in the lobby. A couple from downtown Manhattan was frantically trying to reach family members on the hostel lobby phone. We all watched for hours, shocked, but unaware until the days that followed just what a life-changing event had just happened. Kyle and I reached out via email to each of our parents at internet cafés over the next few days, checking in on how they were doing. Everywhere we went, Turkish strangers would tell us how sorry they were for us. American flags flew all over this non-American country. We were asked repeatedly if we knew people personally affected by the disasters. It was all anyone talked about for the two weeks we were there.

…Four-plus months later, the two of us left Kosovo and returned home to a different country, now forever changed, and still affected in ways the younger generation will never know first-hand.

Never forget.

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. Hoo boy, do I love and appreciate ’s words about how to free yourself from nostalgia and appreciate the time in which you live, because I could copy + paste much of what she said about her adolescent and young adult years (though in different decades for different life stages, I’m guessing—my Avril Lavigne days were early marriage and parenting). But her point remains, and I completely agree: “I can only tell you that once I stopped demonizing my own time, I could start to love it. I could see that there were good things before and bad things too.”

2. This week I’m back to putting a smidge of butter in my morning coffee a la Elizabeth Bright, and so far I do feel a bit better, cortisol-wise (I’ve been experiencing that oh-so-annoying situation of 3 a.m. wake-ups for no real reason the past few weeks, a key sign I have too much cortisol running through my veins). I’ll report soon whether it helps.

3. I’m around a lot of younger women in my real life, so it’s encouraging when I read words of wisdom from someone like , who’s just a bit ahead of me in the parenting game.2 With only two years left of my own homeschooling (how?!), and as someone who gets asked alllllll the time for my secret for The Best Way to Do It™️ (ha!), I really appreciated Elizabeth’s words of encouragement: “I know something now that the woman with all those little children could only know in theory: We do not control the outcome. ...But education isn’t an equation in which the correct inputs guarantee the desired adult at the other end. And frankly, neither is motherhood.”

4. The past few days I’ve had a hankering to travel—not to escape my current life, but simply to enjoy some new-to-me experience. I’ve come to learn that when I get this hankering, it usually means I need to interject some form of wonder into my everyday, I’m-here-at-home-for-now life. …A different route on my neighborhood walk, checking out a shop I’ve passed by for ages but never visited, breaking out a hobby I haven’t done in awhile, even for an hour (hello, watercoloring or paddleboarding). It’s a note to myself to do something a little off my beaten path sometime soon, just because. There’s no need to wait until we’re camping at a national park or wandering a European village to take in the gift of wonder.

5. And finally, if this history lesson on how people lived their everyday lives before the ubiquity of air conditioning doesn’t make you thank your lucky stars for the invention of this delightful technology (see: nostalgia, above), well... perhaps you don’t live in Texas.

Currently Reading, Watching, Listening 📺

Project Hail Mary on Prime3

Quotable 💬

“Deeper than our wanderlust and desire for adventure is the desire to find our way back home. Ultimately, we want the adventure only so that we can savor it and tell it around the fireplace at home.”

- Ronald Rolheiser

Which classic board game would you be willing to play this weekend? 🎲

I liked this reader-submitted question because our family is big on game night, and it reminded me we need to get one on the calendar soon (Reed, we’ll also save one on the calendar for when you’re home next!). I’m with the majority of you: Scrabble and Clue are the GOATs. As for Monopoloy—that’s gonna be a game I’m given in Purgatory. Lord, help me if/when that game ever breaks out in front of me.

• Scrabble: 42.7%

• Clue: 27.8%

• Battleship: 10.1%

• Life: 8.1%

• Monopoly: 7.1%

• Candy Land: 4.2%

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Summer 2027: Italy! 🍝🍷

We’re going to one of my all-time favorite places on earth for next summer’s pilgrimage… I’d love to have you come along! Join us:

Go on pilgrimage to Italy 🇮🇹

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

What were you doing twenty-five years ago today when you heard the news?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - Here’s a kayak.

Our first day of classes this week went beautifully! This co-op I started two years ago has become bigger than I ever imagined, which means I am beyond grateful for the other parents who’ve rolled up their sleeves to help. My “working genius”2 lies more in vision-casting and launching, decidedly not in maintenance, so I look forward to passing on the keys to this growing ship soon... But in the meantime, I’m so grateful to be back in the classroom with adolescents, who are some of my favorite people to be around during an ordinary week. These 14 to 18-year-olds are delightful, and they give me hope for our future.

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. A few days ago we practiced our regular end-of-the-month gratitude by naming ten things, big and small, we’re thankful for. What readers have mentioned so far: “’bracelet making with my 6-year-old,’ ‘air conditioning while heat wave continues,’ ‘my pumpkin coffee creamer making it feel like fall,’ and ‘being brave and saying something that needed to be said with kindness and grace. I think. I hope.’” Join in and share your August list!

2. I knew I’d appreciate ’s reflections on Berry’s death, and I wasn’t wrong: “The most fitting way to honour Mr. Berry’s life and legacy, beyond sharing poems, quotes, and stories, is to make his costly words mean something in your life; to change — really change — the way you relate to your local place, your neighbours, and the wild creatures who also call your place home.”

3. Another Brit who really appreciated Berry’s work, hits the nail on the head with his observations here (and I’m envious of his having gotten to sit around the Kentucky dinner table with the Berry clan): “Berry never bought a computer or used a smartphone; he wouldn’t use air travel; and he lived and worked in the small rural community he brought to life with his words. Unable to call him a hypocrite, his critics had to content themselves instead with calling him an unrealistic fossil, wedded to a dead past. But there was nothing simple about Wendell Berry, and he was not committed to some Romantic fantasy.”

4. This story from about getting permission to reprint one of Berry’s poems made me smile.

5. And finally, I loved this honest poem from about making peace with Wendell Berry, at minimum because she quotes one of my all-time favorite quotes of his (and for many years what has been on my welcome page of The Commonplace here): “One day you will read / Be joyful though you have considered all the facts / and you will rage.”

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Sacred Fire: A Vision for a Deeper Human and Christian Maturity, by Ronald Rolheiser3

Quotable 💬

“So, friends, every day do something that won’t compute. Love the Lord. Love the world. Work for nothing. Take all that you have and be poor. Love someone who does not deserve it.”

- (who else, but our friend) Wendell Berry

Water: what’s your preference? 💧

Obviously I like still water. Obviously. I’d be dead otherwise. But if I had to choose… I’m grabbing the sparkling water.

• Still: 70.5%

• Sparkling: 29.5%

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Come to Italy With Me… 🍷

I’m absolutely stoked about next summer’s pilgrimage… I’d love to have you join my family and me! Let your world get rocked in all the right ways through Tuscany’s beauty.

Go on pilgrimage to Italy 🇮🇹

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

What could you do this weekend to please your ten-years-ago self? Your ten-years-from-now self?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - Me right now (and let’s be honest, me in Central Texas for the next six weeks still).

This next Tuesday is our first day of classes, and this year in my dual-credit Western civ humanities class we’re covering the middle portion of our three-year cycle: roughly 500-1650 A.D. I’m eager to dive into this time period because it’s usually so neglected in our modern education system (at least in the States)—yet it is wildly fascinating. We’re starting off with Boethius’ Consolation of Philosophy, a book I didn’t first read until I was an adult—and once I did, I thought about it for weeks afterwards. I’m excited to unpack it with them.

I tell my adolescent students that I teach from these Great Books not because I think they’ll fully understand them at age 16—but because I hope their interest is piqued enough to consider opening them again at age 36, when they’ll get so much more out of these classics. It’s a delight and honor to read these books alongside them!

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. A few days ago I shared a list of 49 things I’m grateful for, having turned 49 on that very day. I cannot believe I’m now starting my 50th orbit around the sun… just the sound of that is so very strange to me. Insert ALL the clichéd reactions here.

2. Yesterday’s dinner was chicken parm using this recipe, which I’ve done about six times now. It’s become a favorite, both because it’s delicious (and carnivore enough for me), and because it’s so stinking easy. 10/10, would recommend.

3. Is the concept of “falling in love” written into our DNA? I appreciated this short piece about romance, romantic love, and what it says about the weight of glory on our shoulders and the design of God written on our human hearts: “[C.S.] Lewis believed that only in heaven will we be able to endure the full brilliance of the divine image in one another. Given eternity, we would have both the time and the capacity to bear the incredible weight of glory present in every person we meet. But not on Earth. For now, we are given only brief flashes—sudden stabs of romantic love: reminders of the eternal love story to come.”

4. and are launching a fun new endeavor: Pocket Stack—analog, 4x6 print copies of Substack essay collections. What a fun idea! I completely endorse this creativity.

5. And finally, what state should I live in? I took this quiz, and it asked me about twelve different states, none of which were Texas… And yet my result? Apparently I should live in Texas. How about that.

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My Best of Andrew Peterson playlist (especially this song on repeat, in honor of my son now away at college… 😭)

Quotable 💬

“With mirth and laughter let old wrinkles come.”

- William Shakespeare, The Merchant of Venice

What did you do right after high school? 🎓

Even though I’m with the majority, I’m kinda surprised at how many of us are in the majority here… It would be interesting to cross this with our ages as well. Had I known about the concept of a gap year, I probably would have really benefitted from one—as a classic first-born good-grades girl, I was already burned out on classroom education before my first semester freshman year even started (and my giant state school didn’t exactly help). Alas… I had a pretty decent “gap year” of sorts not long after college, meeting my husband in a tiny eastern European country and all. 🥰

• College (or some other form of higher education): 85.8%

• Work: 6.8%

• Intentional gap year: 3.4%

• Something else: 2.6%

• Ministry: 0.9%

• Military: 0.5%

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

What age do you feel? Why?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - Yeah, this all used to be woods.

I’ll have deeper thoughts here soon, but in the meantime, we gotta get this young man set up in his dorm, fly through a whirlwind weekend of “Disorientation” (that’s what they call freshman orientation at his university), and then the parents are gently shown the door after Sunday brunch. 🥺

I’m grateful both his siblings are able to come up for the day to see him settled in for this big life milestone... I actually really do love this parenting stage with young adults.

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. A few days ago I shared some thoughts after a 24-hour personal getaway, with the revelatory epiphany from God to just do the things I know to do: “Those who stop seeking novelty as a means of escaping boredom, and instead embrace the ordinary rhythms that come with a proven track record are the ones who ultimately find the satisfaction they’re looking for. They also don’t wait to feel like doing something before taking action. They just …do the same right-there thing they know to do.”

2. I’m doing St. Michael’s Lent this year, a new (very optional) spiritual discipline for me. It started on August 15, ends on September 29—Michaelmas—and I’m praying this novena (a repeated prayer) throughout. I’m also fasting from certain foods and adding more focused workouts… In some ways it feels like the worst time of year for me to do this (hello, all the things on my current plate), but in many ways that’s exactly why it’s the best time of year for me to do this. So far, it’s helping me remember what matters most, as well as Whose I most am.

3. This letter from to her young son couldn’t have landed at a better time (see above, re: my weekend parenting task): “When people invite you to do things, go. You’ll always have more fun trying things than sitting alone at home. And if you have a terrible time, maybe you’ll get a good story out of it. An experience is never wasted if something has been learned from it.”

4. I also appreciated ’s recent reflections while wading in the same dadgum pool here: “We’ve given it our best effort, I think, but parents are only granted so many days with their children. …This is of course the terrible reality of motherhood: if you do your job right, you work yourself right out of it.”

5. And finally, I’m fascinated by this Spanish priest who’s helped over 1,200 people find their spouses …using WhatsApp, of all things. Hey, whatever works, I say.

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Every Shade of Blue Radio

Quotable 💬

“You don’t think your way into a new kind of living. You live your way into a new kind of thinking.”

-Henri Nouwen

What’s your preference? ☕️

Me too, majority of you. Me too.

• Coffee: 62.2%

• Tea: 32%

• Neither: 5.8%

Find the next poll question here.

Come to Italy With Me… 🍷

Go on pilgrimage to Italy 🇮🇹

Quick Links 🔗

• 📐 Create your own Rule of Life

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• 📖 Read my books

• 🇮🇹 Come to Italy!

Create your Rule of Life ✍️

Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

Who in your life could use a word of encouragement this next week?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - That’s a nice porch.

This next week we’re taking our second-born up to college (🤯), then the following week we’ve got our co-op’s fall kickoff, my birthday the next day, and my next round of book edits due a few days later before my first day of teaching classes the following Tuesday. -When’s fall break?

…It wouldn’t be the second half of August if it wasn’t wildly nuts. **sips aerocano for sanity

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. This week we’ve been sharing what we read in July and what we’re currently reading in August (stop adding book ideas to my eternal pile!). If you’re a subscriber, join in the chat.

2. This summer I started weight training again, and it’s been really good to get back at it—I’ve been hitting up my friend’s garage gym, and I often go with one or two of my kids. It’s been a treat! Anyhoo, I’ve been embracing this idea of needing to practice only seven basic movements, and I suppose it’s too soon to tell, but so far it’s making me enjoy working out again.

3. Arguably one of my favorite reasons to homeschool is the second (and much better) education I’ve received myself. Here’s a good reminder that it’s never been easier to not deprive yourself of closing up any education gaps with all the many resources available to us now: “The future of liberal arts cannot depend on whether elite universities recover their former prestige. It must depend on something much older and more hopeful: ordinary people who continue the pursuit of knowledge for what is good, true, and beautiful.”

4. I really did marvel at the size of Jane Austen’s writing table when I first saw it about ten years ago. We don’t need a Thoreau-ian writing cabin in the woods or Hemingway’s hideaway in Key West to do the daily, ordinary work of showing up to write… We can embrace Austen’s little table behind a squeaky door, purposely never fixed so she had fair warning of an intruder in order to hide her latest manuscript.

5. And finally, eating the K-rations of World War II. …This continues to be my favorite just-for-fun channel on YT.

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The Unselected Journals of Emma M. Lion, Vols. 6-7, by (Yep, I am flying through them with the goal of finishing the series before the school year begins, and also because they’re just so good.)

Quotable 💬

“Summer was our best season: it was sleeping on the back screeneed porch in cots, or trying to sleep in the treehouse; summer was everything good to eat; it was a thousand colors in a parched landscape.”

-Harper Lee

What’s your honest feeling about summer these days? ☀️

Of course, I asked this in mid-July, so your feelings might have changed since then… It’s definitely gotten swelteringly hot around here. However, since my husband and I have chosen not to complain about the heat for the second summer in a row (since complaining never makes things cooler, and actually makes enduring the summer worse), I still don’t hate summer like I have in previous decades here in Texas—but it’s not the end of the world. Sure, I’d like things to cool off. But in the meantime, I’m appreciating the glory that is still the lazy summer day mindset.

• Slow the heck down, summer…. I’m not done with you yet: 58.6%

• It’s not my favorite, but I’m also not dying: 26.5%

• Is it over already? Please be over already: 10.5%

• What’s summer? (I live in the southern hemisphere): 4.4%

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What’s that niggling thing you’re delaying? (…Just go ahead and get it done.)

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - Fruit discrimination.

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. A few days ago I shared photos from Scotland and revealed the location of next summer’s trip! I’d love you to join us.

2. I have SO enjoyed barely being online for the past two weeks. I didn’t take my usual summer sabbatical for a host of reasons (I may get into reasons why later), but the past two weeks have been a much-needed balm. …And a smack-me-in-the-face reminder why I take a regular, intentional screen break. If you haven’t done so lately, do so—it’ll do your mind, soul, and body some good.

3. At the risk of saying too much… The older I get, and the more I travel, the more I appreciate the wonders of merino wool and find it worth the expense (even though it is indeed painfully expensive). Even underwear.

4. I still have yet to see The Odyssey (even though everyone asks me what I thought of it), but I’ve seen an absolute bajillion reviews and hot takes on it. I doubt I’ll write much about it (no one needs another review of it), but I definitely plan to see it. …But it is genuinely interesting to me that I’ll see three reviews in my feed, all in a row, from people whose opinions seem valid and trustworthy, and who are all saying completely different things. I’m curious what I’ll think.

5. And finally, The Litany of Trust has been so meaningful to me lately, especially during our time in Scotland… Perhaps you need it, too. (Thanks, Fr. Gabe.)

Currently Reading, Watching, Listening 📚

The Unselected Journals of Emma M. Lion, Vols. 1-5, by (I cannot stop reading them, they have been such a delightful companion on my summer journeys, and I find myself retreating to the wonders of St. Crispian’s any chance I get—just like a perfect summer read should.)

Quotable 💬

“We are restful when ordinary life is enough.”

-Ronald Rolheiser

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

Is this an issue you need to solve? Or can it just lie fallow for now?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - My favorite suggestion is dasluksmachbetterdeinmein…

My favorite part of all this, however, is always the people. We have quite a few returning pilgrims on this one, and I can’t wait to see them again (several have been on three or more with us), and of course, I’m eager to meet new friends, too. Every year we wonder how it happens, but it never fails: everyone who travels with us are genuinely fantastic people—folks we’d hang out with no matter where we were.

This week I let Scotland pilgrims know about next summer’s location and itinerary, this weekend the rest of my previous pilgrims of mine will find out, and I’ll share the news with the rest of you fine readers soon.

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. I didn’t know before publication about this piece that mentions me, but it was a pleasure to read and I nodded my way through it. explores the challenge of being a noticer vs. enjoyer of some good, and how making a public defense of goods can unintentionally challenge the pure nature of living it. Aka—don’t neglect your life at the expense of being an influencer of said life: “The digital maw is insatiable and respects no limits, so public figures need to learn to set healthy boundaries themselves.”

2. As a fellow Catholic convert (and someone who just wrote a book about the reasons for my own journey), and as someone who finds ’s art simply lovely, I really enjoyed reading part one of her conversion story: “In Catholicism, I found a language so resonant with my most interior experience - a living faith that held the full complexity of suffering and joy. I took a leap without all the answers - probably with even more questions than before. And I’m so grateful I did.”

3. Heads up about a good new-ish Substack newsletter: 100 Movies Every Family Should See. Put out by the guys of this newsletter, this is a collection of movie reviews I’d have appreciated when my own growing brood were younger. …It’s hard to find decent family-friendly films that don’t make the adults want to stab out their eyeballs with forks.

4. Academically I’m still very much in summer mode (except for my own class booklists), but if you’re hankering for a bit of mid-summer homeschool planning, ’s your gal. She’s got a lovely collection of videos chock-full of practical wisdom and encouragement.

5. And finally, the talented Winston Marshall delivers a delightful banjo tribute in honor of our 250th anniversary. Beautiful.

Currently Reading, Watching, Listening 📚

The Unselected Journals of Emma M. Lion, on audiobook (finally, I know!)

Quotable 💬

“Gardens are not made by singing ‘oh how beautiful’ and sitting in the shade.”

-Rudyard Kipling

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

What have you been dreaming about getting done this summer? How can you either finish or get started on it this weekend?

Heads up: There’s no new 5QT next week in lieu of all my traveling…. And there’s a slight chance this might become a two-week pause if I’m also not able to get one out between the pilgrimage and some domestic family travel. But I’ll be back with you soon enough!

Have a good couple weeks,

- Tsh

p.s. - Great respect in their culture.

I’m spending most of actual today (as in, the day this lands in your inbox) finishing some stuff for next year’s pilgrimage so that I can get it ready to share with this year’s pilgrimage participants—because we leave for Scotland in seven days! Wild how it’s now here. …With that in mind, I’ve got to keep this brief so I can get back to it. I really am so stoked to tell you about next summer’s location—I think many of you will be just as excited! I’ll pull back the curtains soon.

Onward!

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. Earlier this week Commonplace subscribers shared what they read last month and what’s on their reading stacks now—if this is you, join in and add your lists (and give me a Scotland read suggestion!). I’m still seeing Theo of Golden and Emma M. Lion trends, which has been the case for months now… Interesting.

2. Speaking of local community, I loved ’s recent piece on the freedom of rootedness: “Our deepest error, our modern culture’s deepest lie, is this: we should wait for a stable place to justify our commitment. Stability has never been the precondition of rootedness, however. It has always been the product. The good town you cannot find anywhere in America is not found. It is made by people who stayed and made it, none of whom had a guarantee of success. To look at the risks and walk away is merely asking to inherit what you refuse to build.”

3. We’re reading ’s translation of Inferno in my humanities class next year (here’s the full reading list, if you’re curious), so I’ve bookmarked this conversation with on symbols—what they are and why they matter—for watching sometime in the next few weeks. Both men are smart thinkers.

4. From my not-too-long-ago archives, here’s a piece of mine I myself needed to re-read again: “God wouldn’t have made us to sleep a third of our lives, to need to stop and eat (as well as cook beforehand) several times a day if we were put on earth only in order to get stuff done. Jesus wouldn’t have said that Sabbath was for man, not man for the Sabbath, if he didn’t think it was a gift given to us to enjoy and use.”

5. And finally, why did the chocolate ration bar of World War II taste terrible? We got into a side chat about this recently when watching Band of Brothers for the week leading up to Independence Day, and lo, one of my favorite creators, Max Miller, goes and posts about this very thing. Delightful.

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Ludwig on BritBox

Quotable 💬

“Summer afternoon; summer afternoon; to me those have always been the two most beautiful words in the English language.”

-Henry James

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

Who can you call and catch up with this weekend, just for friendship’s sake?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - A portrait of a small boy reading. …May this never change.

Honestly, though, I’m at the book-writing stage where my words no longer have meaning and I hate everything I’ve ever written (anywhere, not just in this book). Why do I use ‘ultimately’ so much? Chuckled? What a weird word; it’s the worst. If I say ‘replied’ instead of ‘said’ one more time I’m going to put me in time-out and throw my book off a cliff.

Like the transition phase in labor, this is how I know I’m almost done and the book is actually getting quite good.

In the meantime, happy 250th Independence Day weekend! My plan is to soon hit ‘send’ on an email to my editor, take a long sweaty walk, then tomorrow sip a bubbly something while my uncle ignites his fireworks collection valued in the five figures. ‘Murica! I love it.

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. As I recently said, this time of year we typically watch an episode or two of John Adams in memory of our country’s founding. This year, we’re aiming to watch the whole series, plus Band of Brothers1 (which we usually watch around Memorial Day). Both are excellent mini-series (arguably the best ever made2), and both are excellent tools for fostering patriotism in adolescents (teen boys in particular). Don’t forget, patriotism is a legit virtue.

2. Speaking of watching stuff for Independence Day, I’ve bookmarked this in hopes of watching it sometime this weekend. I’ve heard good things about it, and I do appreciate a lot of what Hillsdale creates (I’ve taken several of their free online classes).

3. I appreciated this short essay from and echo much of her sentiments: “There’s something profoundly good about being in America, and being American. It’s a truth we ought not forget even among the busyness and conflict of today’s public discourse and political life.”

4. I’m making this for my July 4 dessert—I eat about 85% carnivore, but I relax when we’re eating with friends or for special occasions. I’m using the Sarah brand heavy cream I get from Costco, plus my Creami. Let’s see how it goes!

5. And finally, the oldest restaurant in every state—it turns out we live thirty minutes from the one in Texas! Time for a little date night field trip.

Currently Reading, Watching, Listening 📻

My new Summer 2026 playlist

Quotable 💬

“Here is your country. Cherish these natural wonders, cherish the natural resources, cherish the history and romance as a sacred heritage, for your children and your children’s children. Do not let selfish men or greedy interests skin your country of its beauty, its riches or its romance.”

-Theodore Roosevelt

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

What are three things you love about your country?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - Oh look, it’s me.

This past week, he installed the last of our window replacements. Yes, it was cool that all of our 24 windows (a heckuva lot for a 1,400-square-foot cottage!) were original, single-pane, and that old-school wavy glass style, but they were horribly inefficient and mostly in horrible shape, all the way from the frame to the glass itself. We like to use old materials whenever possible, but with windows we had to upgrade to modern for a bajillion reasons—and in sticking with our overall ethos of respecting the bones and aesthetic of its 1930s structure, it still looks like the era from which it was raised. (And let me tell you, our heating and air bill approves.)

I’m so proud of Kyle’s ability to do every bit of our home renovation, and watching him install windows was no exception. Now we can proceed with finishing the siding replacement (we had to wait on the kitchen window; it’s complicated), then new trim and paint—and then on to what’s next on the list! It never ends. 🫠

It’s always slower to do it yourself, but the earned satisfaction is almost always worth it.

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. I have so many thoughts—and about a quarter of an essay draft written—on the topic brings up so eloquently here: why so many people are so immature these days. Hoo boy, do I have thoughts! Before I hit publish in the meantime (translation: I need to be mature and focus on my own book edits deadline), go forth and read his many gems, such as: “We don’t need maturity because it’s annoying that lots of dudes are sitting around playing video games; we need it because we need mature imago Deis who have the confidence to do what God designed them to do.”

2. I’m currently outside in the back yard of our coffee shop, and while it’s breezy at the moment, I know I’ll get gross and sweaty before too long. Last summer Kyle and I made a pact: We will not complain about the weather. And lo, it helped so much! We all already know Texas summers are brutal, and nobody likes the humidity, the mosquitos, the [fill-in-the-blank of your least-favorite hot-related thing], but complaining only makes it worse. We tell our kids this all the time; why would it be any different for us? I’m finding that embracing the hot season and all that comes with it—and not letting it deter me from being outside—has done wonders on my mental health. I look for ways to swim as much as I can, I keep my go-to bug spray (the only kind that works on me, whom bugs love) on me at all times, and I simply acknowledge the reality that I may take multiple showers in a single day. This mindset has helped me love where I live even more.

3. Write for your roots, says —oof, yes. It’s all too easy to despair about the rapidly increasing illiteracy of our modern culture (says the woman currently editing her next book manuscript clocking in at 103,000 words). But I say despair is a sin (really) because it’s believing the lie that God is not in control and His promises are not worthy of hope. …That aside, it’s also still so very worth it to write, and write long-form at that (and to read it, naturally!). As Joel says: “We believe that our purpose as creatives is to give people oxygen masks, but we’re not wearing one. We believe that we’re trying to connect everyone else to the source, even as we are unknowingly cutting ourselves off. Friends, before you can save others, you have to save yourself. Before you can call others to attention, you must cultivate that attention in your own heart, soul, and mind.”

4. Observation, which is the same observation I make several times a year (thus further proving my point): whatever the discourse du jour that people are talking about a lot at the moment—it’s truly the same topics people were talking a lot about a decade ago. Letting children be more free-range, not letting tech rule your life, not making trad life a LARP.... It’s all the same stuff we were talking about online when blogging was in its heydey and discussing stuff on the internet was still new. Hopefully that’s encouraging to you—that even in seemingly current topics like this, there’s nothing new under the sun.

5. And finally, has a new middle-grade book! A win for us all.

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A Canticle for Leibowitz, by Walter M. Miller

Quotable 💬

“I wonder what it would be like to live in a world where it was always June.”

-L. M. Montgomery

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There may be one or two more spots on the Scotland trip left (we leave in less than a month now, so don’t delay!)—reach out to Select (info on that link) to find out details. But in the meantime... I truly cannot wait to share next summer’s pilgrimage with y’all. For those of you who’ve gone on a trip with me before: be watching your inboxes because you’ll find out first (hopefully in the next week or two), and you’ll get first dibs on spots! I have a feeling this one will fill up fairly fast, so sign up asap.

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

What hard thing can you do this week that the You one year from now will be really glad you did?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - Ouch.

Therefore—like many 5QTs published during the summer months, the next few issues will be short and sweet. It’s for the greater good of a stronger book to bring you for your shelves, so it’s worth it! But in advance: thanks for understanding.

Onward!

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. Earlier this week I shared to subscribers an essay I first wrote 17 (!) years ago—I still think of this idea from time to time: “Our days’ quotidian everydayness numb our senses. Routine begets monotony, and before you know it, it’s been a year since you were given that perfume. And then two. It’s easy to simply forget about that good lotion, the bone china, the silk skirt. There’s spit-up to contend with. Traffic to fight.”

2. I’m currently finalizing details on the summer 2027 pilgrimage, and I’m super eager to share this one with you (though previous pilgrims always get the news + registration dibs first)! In the meantime, if you haven’t chimed in on where you’d one day like to go, head to the poll here and let me know.

3. My X feed is currently filled with lots of chatter of who’s America’s Homer? The obvious answer is ‘Homer is the America’s Homer’ because we were nothing if not built on a collective group of ancestors who embraced the idea of a hero’s journey and a mythic love of the Greek ideal. But since the question is presumably more about storytelling, then my answer is Mark Twain, with Tom Sawyer a sort of Iliad and Huck Finn a sort of Odyssey. …I’m still mulling over this idea, though.

4. One of my IRL friends wrote this lovely reflection on living physically near your friends (I’m the one who “lives in the historic square” nearby), and obviously I agree with her: “People move for job and educational opportunities. Why aren’t we willing to move for the opportunities that physical proximity to family and friends can bring? Most often, community is something we forge, not fall into.”

5. And finally, this whole essay from on the current Catholic dating scene had me both laughing out loud and grateful that I got the last chopper out of Nam (I didn’t, really—I’ve been married 23.5 years and we weren’t even Catholic at the time, but still, I’m grateful we were in the sunset era of normal-ish dating practices). There’s at least one solid phrase in every paragraph: “Sometimes you are simply trying to find out if this person is pleasant, kind, funny, grounded, and capable of holding a conversation without using the phrase ‘the crisis of modernity’ more than three times.”

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Here One Moment, by Liane Moriarty (the audiobook is quite lovely—also, hooray for easy summer reading!)

Quotable 💬

“Bees do have a smell, you know, and if they don’t they should, for their feet are dusted with spices from a million flowers.”

-Ray Bradbury

What’s your M.O. on birthday parties? 🎉

Clearly last week I was feeling the semi-regular pressure I feel as a mother with a kid having a birthday… This has always been a point of consternation for me, because I want to be the fun mom who goes all-out with parties, even simple ones, but a long time ago I relented to the reality that I’m just not a fun party mom. That’s okay; I’m good at other things! …I love celebrating birthdays and other milestones, but I hate the pressure to make them epic and memorable.

Once our kids turned 13, we told them they could have a few friends over, but that they’d have to do all the planning and hosting themselves. Some years they’d have parties because they wanted to bother with the details; some years they just didn’t and we kept it a family affair with dinner and cake. It’s been a solid compromise.

In other words: I’m with the majority here most of the time.

• We celebrate, but keep them simple and just family gatherings: 58.8%

• We do occasional parties with friends, but not every year: 27.7%

• Meh—I prefer birthdays fly under the radar: 8.5%

• We go all-out with themed parties & a friend-filled guest list: 5%

Note: I hate to say it, but handling the poll section of this newsletter is weirdly one of my more time-consuming tasks, so until my book edits are fully submitted, I’m briefly hitting the pause button on them. I know, I know! …I’ll do my best to hurry. 😭

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What are three easy ways you could get out in nature this weekend?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - A super-cool photo.

Today (the actual today you’re reading this) Kyle’s briefly heading out of town for a quick trip, and both boys have summer jobs to attend to—so after my morning writing, I’m tackling the first items on my summer house project list. If the weather cooperates I’ll be painting some wooden cabinet doors destined for our bathroom’s open shelves (it’s only taken us 9.5 years to get to this point), then potentially decluttering my wardrobe if the spirit moves. I’m craving a return to a summer capsule wardrobe, seeing as 90% of the time I wear the same thing anyway. We shall see.

Huzzah for summer’s (lack of) routines and rhythms! School—what’s that?

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. Yesterday I shared my latest State of the Newsletter “address”—it’s been literal years since I’ve written one of these, yet I felt the need for my own sake (and then it’s nice to share the resulting thoughts with you all). I’m thankful for each and every comment you’ve left about your Commonplace origin, and I also appreciate those of you taking the time to take the included poll (wrong answers and all).

2. When the calendar flipped to June, the High Holy Season of Cold Brew began. Here’s what I do: I take a half-gallon mason jar and insert one of these, add one cup of coarse-ground fresh coffee, then fill it with 7-8 cups of filtered water. Let it sit at least for at least eight hours in the fridge, then enjoy as a concentrate all week long (I make a half-size decaf version in a separate jar for the afternoons). I usually drink it black with ice, but occasionally I’ll add a splash of straight heavy cream (look for a one-ingredient offering at Costco!) and 2-3 tiny drops of a homemade sugar-free syrup.

3. I thoroughly enjoyed ’s recent thoughts about a theology of awkwardness, and what it means to be real people living real lives, unencumbered by the technology that strips away the gifts of human awkwardness from us: “Awkwardness matters more than most of us realize. It is what so many of us spend our whole lives running from. We are terrified of saying and doing the wrong thing, coming off the fool, finding ourselves humiliated through our own inadequacy, and not measuring up. Awkwardness is also what makes so many forms of technology—artificial and otherwise—so appealing. It promises us protection from awkwardness—from uncomfortable conversations, badly written emails, poor decisions about paint colors, encounters that don’t go as planned, disappointment in friendship, rejection in love, and so many of the messy moments in romance, work, and life that expose us for the imperfect beings we are.”

4. Even though we rarely go camping during the summer months here in Central Texas, I know it’s the dawn of the major camping season for a lot of you. So, our foray at a local park last weekend reminded me of this quick tip, in case it’s the food that feels daunting to you: make a simple soup ahead of time, then freeze it in a 64-ounce container. Let that serve as part of the ice in the cooler for the rest of your perishables. Bring your Instant Pot, because there’s zero shame in that game, and a few hours before dinner, plug it in and pop that now semi-frozen soup into the pot (which fits perfectly). Let it warm up until dinner, et voilá: a no-fuss already-made meal to eat in paper bowls with disposable spoons. (Yes, this is “car camping” and not hard-core backpacking, but I presume this is the most reasonable style of camping for most of you reading this.)

5. And finally, a few days ago one of my sons (the birthday boy) and I went down a memory lane rabbit hole of rewatching some OK GO music videos… I first encountered them about twelve years ago and was entranced by their creativity. Glad to see they’re still on their a-game!

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Patience, on PBS (well, two episodes in… So far I like it though)

Quotable 💬

“And so with the sunshine and the great bursts of leaves growing on the trees, just as things grow in fast movies, I had that familiar conviction that life was beginning over again with the summer.”

-F. Scott Fitzgerald

What’s your favorite summertime activity? 🏖️

An impossible question, I know, and one whose answer changes for me by the day. Overall, I’d say simply being outdoors, but with a huge caveat that my favorite outdoor activity is swimming because, hello, Texas… Honestly, I love it all. I know August is scorched earth around here, but overall I’m Team Summer, big time. (My Oregonian husband feels very much otherwise.)

• Being outside (including camping): 43.7%

• Travel: 18.2%

• Reading indoors: 17.8%

• Swimming: 11.8%

• Grilling & eating outdoors: 8.5%

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

What’s one thing you could bravely say no to right now? What’s one thing to bravely say yes to?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - Barcelona, you win.

It may very well be pouring down rain, so TBD on whether we call it and head home to our shower and bed. However, we do love our new-to-us camper, so I dunno, it also sounds like an adventure to power through the rain and stay cozy in the camper while looking at nature through rain-streaked windows. The dog is the big contender though. No one likes a wet, muddy dog, even when you’re camping.

The goal is to eat steak cooked over a campfire (though: rain, etc., so maybe?), read just for fun in a foldable rocking chair (perhaps under our awning), play a few card games, and if weather permits, go paddle boarding in the lake. After our chock-full spring semester, no agenda but nature for 48 hours sounds positively lovely, no matter what comes forth from the clouds.

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. Speaking of meat cooked on fire, I’m looking forward to an upcoming long season of dinner prepared mostly in the backyard. I create seasonal menu plans, mostly copy + paste with a few variations here and there, because my clan is simple and doesn’t mind repetition. My summer priority is not turning on the oven while getting us all plenty of protein, so that typically means the grill (alongside the trusty Instant Pot and air fryer). Have a go-to meat-based meal that’s super-simple and meets this criteria? I’d love to hear it.

2. ICYMI, a few days ago I shared with you all what it’s like to marry off your daughter—I’m still reflecting on all the thoughts and feelings, but for now, I’m glad my initial words have resonated with you: “We stand before God and community to promise each other our fealty until death do us part, and what a step of faith that is. We have no idea what’s coming, all the stretch marks and bills and budget-friendly date nights in the living room after the kids are asleep and late-night bedroom chats about how the teens are doing, and how not knowing what’s all in store is probably for the best.”

3. On that note—a few days ago, Kyle and I went on a double date with our daughter and her new husband, and I’m happy to report that it was a lot of fun and not as weird as I thought it’d be. It felt very ordinary and as-it-should-be, a nice hybrid of easy family hangout and dinner out with another couple like we’ve been doing for decades. …Like in all stages of life, where we don’t have the grace to be in it until we actually are, I’m starting to look forward to this next stage of life.

4. Also, at the beginning of the week, Commonplace subscribers and I shared our June book plans (plus what we read last month). It’s our traditional way to start each month, so if this is you, pop over there and share what’s in your stack!

5. And finally, if you’re an old-school podcast enjoyer—meaning, you still like laid-back, short-ish, simple conversation-focused episodes, I’d love to hear from you here regarding your thoughts on the trend of making podcasts video-formatted. I have my opinion, but it’s genuinely helpful to hear from you too as I make plans for Drink’s next season. I appreciate it in advance!

Currently Reading, Watching, Listening 📖

The Ministry of Time, by Kaliane Bradley (but I’m only about two pages in, so I admittedly just started)

Quotable 💬

“The Earth has music for those who listen.”

-Reginald Vincent Holmes

How do you organize your books? 📚

Hoo boy, can this be a contentious topic, and I’m regularly made fun of here in my own household... I am a firm believer that books should be alphabetized by author, as the good Lord intended (though I can make some space for topical organization, if it’s then still done alphabetically by author). I tried topical once, but then I lost my Lewis collection all nice and tidy together—who wants Narnia all the way over there, while Screwtape Letters is in another section, while Till We Have Faces is in yet another section? None of that nonsense. Respect the creator of the work, I say.

The vast majority of you are nuts. How can you live in the sheer chaos?

• Topic: 39.5%

• My own particular method: 28.7%

• Vibes: 16.4%

• Alphabetically: 7.6%

• Color: 6.8%

• Acquisition date: 1%

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Time’s running out to register, but there’s still a bit more space… Come join! Make this summer one for the books.

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

What’s one thing you could do this weekend to make your next week’s self happier?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - Amen.

Our oldest is officially married, our second is officially graduated, and our youngest officially turns sixteen (and hopefully gets his driver’s license soon after🤞) in about two weeks. How am I at this stage of life? Among the many other wild things I’ve had to process lately, this is a big one Kyle and I keep repeating to ourselves like a couple set out to pasture at a retirement home: time sure flies, doesn’t it? Weren’t we just married? Wasn’t this scholarship-amassing new college student of ours just worrying us with his lack of speaking? Weren’t we just dealing with our youngest as a three-year-old constantly getting in to everything, climbing out-of-reach shelves to reach Halloween candy and super glue? Alas, all the clichés about time, etc., have been loudly ringing true these days. I’ve got an essay in the works reflecting on some of these thoughts, and I hope to hit publish on it soon.

In the meantime: the summer season is here! 👏 Even if these months don’t reflect my favorite temp on the thermometer, summer is my favorite season because of its pace of life. Perhaps it’s the homeschool mom in me, perhaps it’s the teacher in me, perhaps it’s simply the Texan in me who prefers cut-offs and bare feet, but summer mode is the Best Mode. Bring on the easier books, cold drinks, and porch swings. I am so very ready.

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. Earlier this week I asked Commonplace subscribers to share their monthly gratitude lists, so if you’re a sub, don’t forget to add yours! (it was on Memorial Day, so you may have been wisely offline and thus missed it). Some favorites I’m seeing so far: ‘The beauty of a thunderstorm and the rainbow that followed,’ ‘an ancient light pink patchwork quilt on our bed,’ ‘the camaraderie around the Route 66 celebrations going on during the 100th anniversary of the Mother Road—it’s been fun meeting people from all across the nation who are traveling through,’ and ‘having a few friends that I keep in touch with via hand-written letters.’

2. A new papal encyclical dropped this week! 🙌 For those unaware (because I didn’t know until I swam the Tiber), popes often write documents that serve as letters to a global audience, often about social or theological issues. Here it is directly from the Vatican, and so far this is my favorite commentary slash explainer (though I look forward to eventually watching this discussion when it’s available to the public). …Lots to unpack in this document.

3. Speaking of the spirit of being full persons in the age of technology, I appreciated these words and photos of Carmelite monks in Wyoming building a Gothic cathedral by hand, while also using technology and modern tools, like robots: “…Everything from Champagne to lowercase letters to water-powered forges have been invented by enterprising monks. It is this tradition of innovation that the Wyoming Carmelites are leaning into to answer their prayers for a mountain monastery.”

4. hits it out of the park with his recent reflections on having kids when there’s never a good time to have kids. As I told him—there is, indeed, never a good time to have kids, which is why it’s always a good time to have kids. His words beautifully capture the essence of parenting: “Sometimes, I’m even thankful that the world she’s coming into isn’t perfect. Neither of us ascribe to the belief that a life without resistance, hardship, let down is what makes for a flourishing life. We need every note on the scale of human emotion in order to stumble into a textured, beautiful life.”

5. And finally, from the archives… A few years ago one of my students requested a summer reading list from me for her transitory months between her junior and senior years. Here’s what I came up with—I’d love to have written another one for this year, but I just haven’t had time. Nonetheless, I think this list is still a strong one! (I’ll share my own summer reading plans for this year in our monthly subscriber book chat soon).

Currently Reading, Watching, Listening 📻

My Summer playlist from last year (until I have time to make this year’s)

Quotable 💬

“Someday, you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again.”

-C.S. Lewis

What’s better in the shower? 🧼

A completely random question, I know, and I bet you can guess where I was when it came to me… I used to be a ride-or-die liquid soap gal, but for about a decade I’ve used good, minimal-ingredient bar soap inside a bag sorta like this, and it’s a game-changer. Not only does it last longer than liquid soap (and therefore cheaper), but the scratchiness on the skin is weirdly therapeutic. 10/10, would recommend.

• Bar soap: 52.6%

• Liquid soap: 47.4%

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Scotland: Join Us This Summer! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

I can’t emphasize enough how formative a pilgrimage like this is in your life…. If you’re on the fence, take these words as a sign from the Lord and SIGN UP. You won’t regret it.

(Psst… Those of you already going: check your inboxes—I wrote you this week!)

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

What’s one of your favorite ordinary summer memories from your childhood?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - Window pane glue! …I have so many questions, but especially for Norway, Lithuania, and Germany.

…And now tomorrow we graduate our second-born from high school. He’s the kid cut from a slightly different bolt of fabric from his siblings, but is also, quite frankly, the best of all of us: he’s got a heart of gold, he’s brilliant beyond my understanding, and he’s the funniest person I know. I’m so stinking proud of him, and I trust God will sustain me this weekend, once again, as I let the waterworks flow and witness another milestone in one of our kid’s life. What grace.

All this means by this fall we’ll have ONE KID left in the house, and I can hardly believe we’re here at this stage of life already. I’m grateful for the next two years of finishing up high school with him under our roof. …I want it to go by as slowly as possible.

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. Several years ago I spoke as the commencement speaker at our school’s graduation—here’s a slightly-edited transcript of what I said: “Listen to tradition. Tradition is the stuff we humans have carried with us for a long time, and while some of it we’ve needed to shed over the ages, much of it is too quickly thrown out as outdated, unnecessary, or holding us back to the past. GK Chesterton called tradition the ‘Democracy of the dead, which means giving a vote to the most obscure of all classes: our ancestors.’ It is very trendy these days to ignore anything that’s old. Don’t be trendy. Listen to good wisdom that’s been around a long time, whether that’s from Dostoevsky or from your grandpa.”

2. I needed this short-and-sweet reminder from my old friend , on how sometimes God speaks to us in our distractions, and isn’t impossibly stuck by our own human diversions: “it struck me: perhaps God is present even in the distracted, curious days like this one.”

3. How not to be an anxious parent—these are simple but true words of wisdom on what our actual roles are as parents, and what it means to love our children enough to let them live with the free will God has given them (this is a newsletter written specifically on parenting boys by , but the wisdom applies to girls, too): “You bring into parenting the same limitations and defects you had before your children arrived. Expecting to make many mistakes is not pessimism but realism; it is the only reasonable stance and, paradoxically, it is a source of peace.”

4. Very rarely do I share a piece from the same writer two weeks in a row, but knocks it out of the park again with yet another timely poem (particularly for me, since he and I are going through very similar life events and are roughly the same age): “Now, on a dark evening, I sit in the lamplight, our house quiet, and I wonder what my son, the one who just moved out, is doing in his new place, if he is reading any of those books we lugged up the steps, and if he remembered to lock the door.”

5. And finally, for some much needed levity (at least for me this week), always delivers with his insightful, timeless wisdom: “Graduates, I want you to take a moment to look at the person sitting on your right and left. In five years, one of those two people will be dead. And you will be married to the other one, so choose carefully.”

Currently Reading, Watching, Listening 📻

My old Shmoopy playlist, thanks to our daughter’s wedding1

Quotable 💬

“God spoke today in flowers, and I, who was waiting on words, almost missed the conversation.”

-Ingrid Goff-Maidoff2

What are your summer travel plans (so far)? 🚗

We’re doing a tiny bit of in-state travel in a few weeks (Kyle and I are going on a much-needed weekend getaway!), and then there’s a chance we may make it up to Oregon again to visit family later this summer. But our biggest family travel is to Scotland, which of course you can join us (and should!). I’m so excited—it’ll be a fantastic pilgrimage with delightful people, as always.

• Domestic travel: 46.3%

• Staycation: 24.2%

• In-state travel: 16.4%

• International travel: 13.1%

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Historic Highlands: Join Us This Summer! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

I can’t emphasize enough how formative a pilgrimage like this is in your life…. If you’re on the fence, take these words as a sign from the Lord and SIGN UP. You won’t regret it.

Come with us to Scotland! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

What would your high-school self be glad to know about your current-day self?

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - Moving cars with the swipe of a hand.

I’m naturally channeling all my focus and emotional energy right now on, you know, my oldest and only daughter getting married 🤯, so this will be short and sweet. Onward!

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. Several years ago in celebration of our anniversary I wrote a list of nine lessons learned in marriage—though I wish I had more time to write a fresh list, I honestly wouldn’t disagree with anything I said several years ago. …So if you missed it the first time, hopefully it’s an encouragement to you, and if you read it back then, well, perhaps it’s worth a re-read: “Don’t keep account of wrongs. Notice the good things—how that one color t-shirt looks good on him, how he always drags the trash cans to the curb on Monday nights, that he’s inordinately kind on the phone to that one high-maintenance client of his—and then tell him so. Say a thousand more encouraging things than the tens of issues you may have with him.”

2. A few years ago I also had a podcast conversation with one of my favorite local friends (whom we first met on one of our pilgrimages!), and he and his wife are some of Tate’s favorite people, too. Rick Reynolds is a marriage therapist specializing in infidelity, which I know is a weird thing to bring up, but this conversation was actually super encouraging and uplifting for marriage in general. He’s got great advice.

3. wrote lovely words about why weddings are a communal celebration, not a private affair—this idea has been on my mind for months now as we’ve planned this thing that has sometimes often felt a bit… overwhelming. She hits on so many points I wish I had more time to write myself, so instead, I’ll let her say the words for me: “A wedding is a couples first ‘official’ act of hospitality. There is something wonderful about the way a wedding may display the distinctive character of each couple’s relationship, the qualities and strengths their union will bring to the world.”

4. A few years ago, Edward and Beth Sri recorded a great conversation with Fr. Mike Schmitz on marriage. It was at a college conference, but the focus is still on the nitty-gritty mess of marriage, which I really appreciated—I think it’s an encouragement for all of us. The above is part one; here’s part two.

5. And finally, what’s the most important part of the wedding ceremony? This is a solid answer.

Currently Reading, Watching, Listening 📺

Remarkably Bright Creatures on Netflix (as someone who loved the novel when it first came out a few years ago, I was pleasantly surprised by this adaptation!)

Quotable 💬

“In the twilight of life, we will be judged on love alone.”

-St. John of the Cross

Whatever your state in life, which quote best describes marriage to you? 🪢

I’m honestly not sure if I could pick a definitive answer here, since I like all these quotes. …So for right now, as I’m writing this, I’ll go with Schubert’s ‘true friend’ idea. Yes and amen—this has definitely been the case with Kyle and me.

• “A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.” -Anonymous: 38.2%

• “Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction.” -Antoine de Saint-Exupery: 17.6%

• “Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.” -Franz Schubert: 15.2%

• “The art of love is largely the art of persistence.” -Albert Ellis: 10.8%

• “Mature love has a bliss not even imagined by newlyweds.” -Boyd K. Packer: 10%

• “If I get married, I want to be very married.” -Audrey Hepburn: 5.2%

• “The value of marriage is not that adults produce children but that children produce adults.” -Peter de Vries: 2.8%

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Historic Highlands: Join Our 2026 Scottish Pilgrimage! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

Travel is one of the most formational activities we can do on earth; one of the few that, for the most part, is worth the money spent—that’s been the case with pilgrimages for me, and it’s one of the reasons I love leading them.

Consider joining my family and me (along with some new kindred spirits) in Scotland this summer! We’ll walk through the rugged highlands, wander through the halls of medieval castles, and more. You won’t regret it.

“There is no other place like Scotland in the whole world.” - Sir Walter Scott

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

What small thing are you grateful for this exact second you’re reading this? (pause right now and name it to yourself)

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - Seeing as most of Tate’s wedding attendees will be non-Catholic, here’s a friendly list of what not to do at a Catholic wedding. Our programs have a lot of written explainers so that our friends and family know that all the “things” aren’t just random (they all have a purpose!), but these are still good thoughts. …With a caveat.1

Last night we had what I hope was not our last family dinner ever (far from it, Lord willing!), but at least a focused family dinner that I insisted we intentionally put on the calendar before extended family and friends all start coming in for the wedding next week. I wanted time with just the five of us for one last time, around the table eating dinner, with a post-dinner walk and an evening of board games.

It did not disappoint. Our dinner conversation was delightfully ordinary—we simply went around and named our favorite parts of our days, as well as something we each learned (as we’ve done for years now)—then we took the dog on a walk and witnessed a beautiful pink-orange sunset. We came back, cleaned up from dinner, and then played a few rounds of Apples to Apples and a few rounds of Clue (which we have officially outgrown). That was it. But it was just what I wanted.

She’ll still come over for dinner, of course, but it’ll most likely be with her husband in tow (as it should be!). I wanted to make sure I mentally captured one final evening with just my three kids, goofing around with each other, poking and prodding at each other with their humor (when did they each get so funny?), and watching my husband slowly fall asleep in the chair next to them. It was a lovely evening.

…And now: eight days and counting until the wedding! 🤯

5 Quick Things ☕️

1. If you’re a Commonplace subscriber, head over to May’s chat for all things books: what you read last month, what you’re reading now, what’s on your TBR stack. After a long season of reading and rereading ancient works for both my class and for my book-writing research, I am SO ready for summer reading… I have so many ideas and won’t get to a fraction of them, but the anticipation is lovely.

2. Earlier this week I took a mental walk down memory lane, from my daughter’s day of birth until basically yesterday. I may write a separate essay about that experience sometime, but in the meantime, I’ll summarize by saying I’m so glad I followed the Lord’s nudge to do so, because while yes, I was a mess of hot tears doing so, it was both cathartic and encouraging to just let myself feel all the feelings about my first-born getting married. …Wasn’t she just that two-year-old toddler playing with blocks and talking my ear off incessantly? Wasn’t she just the nine-year-old we took on our round-the-world school-year trip who celebrated her tenth birthday in a hot air balloon over the Masaai Mara in Kenya? Didn’t she just start middle school and become friends with the two girls who will be her maids of honor next weekend? Didn’t she just get her driver’s license and drive to the store for me for the first time? ...Don’t blink, parents. All the clichés about time are true.

3. I quite enjoyed following along ’s experience of becoming a beekeeper (something on my own must-do-just-for-fun list). Delightful! Bees are remarkable.

4. Thanks to a reader here (make yourself known in the comments here so I can thank you personally again!) for linking to a dress pattern when I was bemoaning the lack of good mother of the bride dresses… Because I ended up using that pattern to make my own dress! It was never on my bucket list to make my own MoB dress, but I’m so glad I did. Is it perfect? …Don’t look too closely at it. But I really like it, and it’ll be fun to wear. Plus: IT HAS POCKETS.

5. And finally, if you want to nod furiously in agreement and let your eyes water inconveniently, read ’s poem about AI. Yes, AI. “And be sure to use AI when your next child gets married, so that you can write them the perfect toast or poem or speech or song because no one wants to hear your words, the actual poorly written words of a parent (you) who changed hundreds of diapers for said child…”

Currently Reading, Watching, Listening 📻

My daughter’s Reminds Me of Mom playlist she made me a few years ago for Mother’s Day

Quotable 💬

“The day the child realizes that all adults are imperfect, he becomes an adolescent; the day he forgives them, he becomes an adult; the day he forgives himself, he becomes wise.”

-Alden Nowlan

What does the month of May mean to you? 🌸

It wasn’t until I had school-age children that I understood what was the big deal about “Maycember;” up to then it came across to me like parents putting too much on themselves and making the end of the school year busier than it needs to be. …Then I understood—even as a homeschooling parent—that there are just so. many. events. that are kid-related and put upon us in May which are simply outside our control. (Clearly my asking this question had to do with my state of mind last week.)

I’m happy to report that even with my daughter getting married next weekend and my son graduating the week after, I’m already feeling saner, now that my only day of teaching left is basically the “presentations + wrap-up game” kind of class. Put a fork in me, I am DONE. I’m ready to celebrate my children! …And then move on to a much, much chiller summertime schedule.

• It’s Maycember — tied with December as the most insane month of the year: 30.5%

• My favorite month — spring weather, delightful calm: 22.7%

• Freedom! School ends and it’s the start of summertime: 21.9%

• Meh — it’s just another month: 19.9%

• Blergh — the weather’s blah where I am (and/or allergies are insane): 5%

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Historic Highlands: Join Our 2026 Scottish Pilgrimage! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

Travel is one of the most formational activities we can do on earth; one of the few that, for the most part, is worth the money spent—that’s been the case with pilgrimages for me, and it’s one of the reasons I love leading them.

Consider joining my family and me (along with some new kindred spirits) in Scotland this summer! We’ll walk through the rugged highlands, wander through the halls of medieval castles, and more. You won’t regret it.

“There is no other place like Scotland in the whole world.” - Sir Walter Scott

Come with us to Scotland! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

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Question(s) For You to Ponder… 🤔

If you have children: what’s your earliest memory of parenting? Or, what’s your earliest memory from your own childhood? -How do these compare to yesterday?

And a happy Mother’s Day to all moms reading this! Your work is so valuable, so needed, and so often unseen… Cheers to you and your late nights, early mornings, and all the errands in-between.

Have a good weekend,

- Tsh

p.s. - I love watching this… (I saw it in person in Ireland, and have a feeling we’ll get to see it in person again this summer in Scotland!).