Hey there,
Ever have those mornings when you wake up and your body is fairly certain it should sleep for at least two more hours? Thatās me this morning. Instead, Iām sipping on my second cup of coffee and willing my brain to catch up with the clock. Time zone-wise, Iām pretty sure itās still somewhere over the Pacific near Hawaiiā¦
Iāve got two stacks of high school essays to read and grade (one on Frankenstein, one on Pride & Prejudice), which means itās near the end of our schoolās session āĀ hallelujah! Another week of cultivating young minds, and then Iām strapping on my apron and baking All The Holiday Things while watching All The Movies. So very here for it.

5 Quick Things āļø
1.Ā š New episode of A Drink With a Friend!Ā šĀ Itās hard to remember the simple beauty around us, so in this episode, we continue practicing the habit of noticing the gift of everyday beauty. Our choices arenāt purely holiday-specific, but there is a bent toward that which we enjoy this time of year.
2.Ā When Iām confused about the idea of the Immaculate Conception, it helps to have a fellow former evangelical do some explaining. Mark Galli, former editor-in-chief of Christianity Today and Catholic convert, unpacks the reasons to scratch our heads āĀ as well as reasonably trust the Church.
3.Ā This is beautifully relatable: āI now have to go one or two sizes up in my jeans, because the old ones canāt contain me and who Iāve become as a mother. This tree trunk has grown a couple extra rings.ā
4.Ā I really want to try these.
5.Ā And finally, this is fantastic: āVery little in real life is actually solved by buying a failing candy cane factory. If you want to get into manufacturing, it would be better to purchase a factory with goods that can be sold year-round ā like paper clips.ā
Currently Reading, Watching, Listening š
A Christmas Carol audiobook, read by Hugh Grant
Quotable š¬
āIf you donāt get everything you want, think of the things you donāt get that you donāt want.ā
ā Oscar WildeĀ #
Two Reminders š
In case youāve forgotten (ha!):
I wrote a book for Advent. Itās never too late to start.
Iāve curated a holiday gift guide with ideas that make fantastic gifts and support good businesses and makers. Finish your shopping in plenty of time!
For Commonplace Subscribers š
Note our Pride & Prejudice live chat āĀ itās next week!
Also, ICYMI, I wrote a thing about the weird trend of calling everything on the internet āmembershipsā and ācommunitiesā:
āSomehow by following someone on Instagram, unbeknownst to you youāve become āpart of their community.ā Internet creators become so desperate for people to follow them that they feel the need to brand themselves as community leaders: a veritable digital PTA president or scout leader or sorority president. And because theyāre aware of the competition, they want people to stick around and feel part of something, so they call their followers members. Part of a community.
(You know, a cozy little comment section on a photo in an app owned by a billionaire.)
I know I sound snarky, and I guess I am. Yet I donāt hold these people (many who I consider friends) ill will. Iām annoyed at the system, the platforms, the tech giants, not these otherwise well-meaning creators. And Iām annoyed at the culture weāve created that tempts and pressures creative people with the false idea that they need to lead something online in order to matter.ā
Elsewhere š
Question For You to Ponder⦠š¤
Is there a 2021 goal of yours you could potentially accomplish in the next few weeks? (You never know, crazier things have happened.)
Have a good weekend!
xo, Tsh
p.s.Ā Who did this, indeed.



